What is the Zero Point?
And how can love be the Zero Point?
Isn't love the opposite polarity to hate?
And if so where is the
centre of that polarity?
I don't see it like that, I see the love polarity as being; over-giving at one extreme and under-giving at the other.
The point for eternal peace and joy is the centre...
The perfect balancing of: unconditional love for others while honouring ourselves, our journey, our truth, our being.
In any polarity; we can be too much of any particular quality at the expense of our self-honour, over-giving, over-allowing, over-compensating, self-sacrificing, denying our own needs, disrespecting our own path.
Or be too little of that quality... under-giving, selfish, inconsiderate, narcissistic, egotistical, self-centred, taking more than we contribute.
The collapse of this polarity is when we can balance the see-saw between giving and receiving or taking.
Let's look at relationships....
When we disproportionately over-give to our partner; we are not balanced, we are not honouring ourselves, as we are loving another more than we are loving ourselves.
When we disproportionately under-give to our partner we are not balanced, we are not honouring our lover, as we are loving ourselves more than we are loving them.
Either way we are not in harmony; we are not embodying divine order, both polarities are unhealthy, both extremes are the result of unhealed wounds.
The balance comes when we can give and receive in harmonious quantities.
The zero point comes when we can see, hear and acknowledge our lover, while at the same time feeling seen, heard and acknowledged.
If we are an over-giver, we will keep attracting partners who are selfish, uncaring and more interested in fulfilling their own needs than lovingly attending to ours ...
This dynamic is the polarity... Not love and hate.
The balance between respecting another and respecting ourselves.
The harmony between honouring another and honouring ourselves.
The freedom between allowing another to express their truth and feeling safe to express our truth.
This is the zero point, this is the fulcrum of empowerment, this is the duet of conscious relationships, this is the tango of bliss, this is honour, this is harmony, this is strength, this is true love. ~ Karen Star
Shakti-life
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